About a clitoral orgasm is written , more than you could read in a lifetime, but a vaginal orgasm is not as thoroughly studied. Stimulation of the clitoris leads to the excitation of almost all women, orgasm may not occur, or stepped surface at the level of the clitoris, but may be involved in the orgasm of the vagina, (the latter, alas, is not given by God to every woman). Even Freud interpreted the clitoral orgasm as a youthful stage of development of sexuality and the vaginal orgasm was considered the true dignity of Mature women. Some women are permanently stuck in the youth period.
The woman experiencing and clitoral and vaginal orgasm, a vaginal orgasm feel like a more powerful source of satisfaction. Sometimes vaginal clitoral orgasm precedes that gives pleasure, but does not bring a full discharge remains Intrusive and arousal, if to continue the sexual act, the subsequent vaginal orgasms more powerful and complete. A vaginal orgasm occurs when stimulation of points G, A, U, PS, K, and brings the woman a very powerful psycho-physiological relaxation, simple — brings the feeling of happiness and gratitude. If a woman is fully satisfied it occurs such a peaceful state where anxiety and aggression reduced to zero, and the efficiency is increased by 100 points! A good fairy is ready to fulfill all desires! She would COO gently, gently purring like a cat and to please her lover in every possible way. The state of complete relaxation is typical for vaginal orgasm! The duration of the relaxation of an individual, to several days or even weeks! Sexologists masters and Johnson very aptly named it the "afterglow".
A clitoral orgasm is fun, but gives such a complete and lasting sense of satisfaction! This clitoral kitty five minutes pearlike, and five minutes later asks for a new coat:-).
But there are situations directly opposite, when a woman is aroused but not satisfied! This may be a case of insufficient clitoral stimulation or over-stimulation, and if stimulation is insufficient voltage sexual excitement gradually subsides, causing some physical discomfort, but generally do not lead to decreased performance, mood and depression, over-stimulation when nedovedennye to orgasm sexual intercourse (even once) is experienced as an acute mood disorder and acute physical comfort! If it happened once — it is possible that kitty claws! But if such experiences accompany every sexual act or almost every, it is not surprising that the young lady becomes furious witch hysterical, aggressive and unbearable to others and ssiiia like a snake on the whole world or rushes like an angry lioness...
So, sex without orgasm harmful to the fragile female psyche!
But even smart ladies are not always able to tell her lover that they are unsatisfied...
What's the solution?
The most important thing to admit to herself that such a sexual relationship You don't like! And then there are several possibilities!
First — and most constructive — talk to HIM and teach him senseless, to bring You pleasure, useless to say something like "not as ... not as...", you say or show "as you like" and "what he must do."
Second — not less than constructive to stop sweating and to stop such painful relationships because if You haven't nailed her lover, tomorrow you will kill not only him, but anyone in the neighborhood!
The third — not the most creative option, but as a disposable tool quite useful — the "I-itself".
Fourth — if all of these methods are not suitable, is to drink, pray, and land on alternate aerodrome...
Fifth – to take the duty of the "sable" or "mink" or ....
Sixth .... or ...there are options....
All! All lots of vaginal orgasms and sexual delight!
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